These are books that have touched me deeply and transformed parts of my being. If you’re drawn to one, trust your body—notice which title feels light or alive for you right now.
Healing Through the Body & Nervous System
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The Body Keeps the Score – Bessel van der Kolk
Reveals how trauma reshapes the body and brain, and how embodied practices can restore wholeness. -
The Body in Expressive Arts – Daria Halprin
Shows how movement, art, and imagination open pathways for emotional healing and self-expression. -
Waking the Tiger – Peter Levine
Introduces Somatic Experiencing®, a body-based approach to resolving trauma and restoring natural rhythms. -
Healing Trauma – Peter Levine
Accessible practices for gently releasing trauma energy held in the nervous system. -
Trauma and Memory – Levine & van der Kolk
Explores how traumatic memories live in the body and how they can be integrated safely. -
My Grandmother’s Hands – Resmaa Menakem
Guides readers through somatic practices for healing racialized trauma and reclaiming resilience. -
When the Body Says No – Gabor Maté
Connects emotional repression and chronic stress to physical illness, with insights for deep healing. -
In an Unspoken Voice – Peter Levine
A compassionate map of how the body responds to trauma and how it can be renegotiated. -
Why Zebras Don’t Get Ulcers – Robert Sapolsky
Explains the biology of stress and offers clarity on how to live more easefully. -
Internal Family Systems Skills Training – Richard Schwartz
Practical exercises for connecting with inner “parts” and cultivating inner leadership. -
The Practical Guide for Healing Developmental Trauma – Heller & Kammer
NARM’s framework for repairing attachment wounds and reclaiming vitality. -
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents – Lindsay C. Gibson
Helps readers name wounds of neglect and step into healthier relational patterns. -
Understanding and Treating Chronic Shame – Patricia DeYoung
Explores how shame hides in body and relationships, and offers pathways to dissolve its hold.
Stories of Survival & Resilience
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The Choice – Edith Eva Eger
A Holocaust survivor’s powerful story of transforming suffering into freedom. -
What My Bones Know – Stephanie Foo
Memoir of living with C-PTSD and finding healing through community and embodiment.
Authentic Communication & Connection
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Nonviolent Communication – Marshall Rosenberg
A practice of listening and speaking from needs, fostering empathy over conflict. -
Say What You Mean – Oren Jay Sofer
Mindfulness-based tools for honesty, clarity, and compassion in communication. -
The Naked Truth – Daniel Munro
Encourages radical honesty as a pathway to intimacy and freedom.
Energy, Intuition & Manifestation
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Hands of Light – Barbara Ann Brennan
Explores the human energy field and its role in healing and transformation. -
Ask and It Is Given – Esther & Jerry Hicks
Teachings on the Law of Attraction and creating from alignment. -
Biology of Belief – Bruce Lipton
Shows how thoughts and beliefs influence cellular health and potential. -
Practical Intuition – Laura Day
Guides readers in strengthening intuitive abilities for everyday life. -
Conversations with God – Neale Donald Walsch
Channeled dialogues that invite deeper connection with the Divine. -
Your Energetic Boundaries – Cyndi Dale
Helps you sense, honor, and protect your energetic field. -
Healing Beyond Pills and Potions – Steve Bierman M.D.
Bridges conventional medicine with the power of mind-body healing.
Living with Purpose & Inner Growth
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Atomic Habits – James Clear
Practical strategies for building habits that stick and transform your life. -
The Power of Habit – Charles Duhigg
Reveals how habits shape behavior and how to shift them. -
Smarter, Faster, Better – Charles Duhigg
On motivation, decision-making, and productivity from a psychological lens. -
The Highly Sensitive Person – Elaine N. Aron
Celebrates sensitivity as a strength and guide to living well in an overstimulating world. -
Braving the Wilderness – Brené Brown
About courage, belonging, and standing true to yourself in times of disconnection. -
Dare to Lead – Brené Brown
How vulnerability and courage transform leadership. -
You Are a Badass – Jen Sincero
Encouragement to claim your power, confidence, and voice. -
The Four Agreements – Don Miguel Ruiz
Simple yet profound practices for integrity and freedom. -
The Happiness Project – Gretchen Rubin
One woman’s year-long experiment in cultivating joy and meaning. -
My Stroke of Insight – Jill Bolte Taylor
A neuroscientist’s firsthand story of brain injury and discovering inner peace. -
Ho‘oponopono – Maria Elisa Hurtado Graciet
An introduction to Hawaiian forgiveness practice as a tool for release and healing. -
The Wisdom of the Enneagram – Don Riso & Russ Hudson
Explores personality patterns as doorways to deeper self-understanding. -
Be You and Change the World – Dr. Dan Heer
Encouragement to embrace authenticity as a gift to others. -
Your Resonant Self – Sarah Peyton
Uses neuroscience and resonance to transform self-criticism into self-compassion. -
Hardwiring Happiness – Rick Hanson
Neuroscience-based practices for installing positive emotional states. -
Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself – Joe Dispenza
How meditation and neuroscience help you shift old patterns and create new ones. -
The Art of Asking – Amanda Palmer
On vulnerability, creativity, and learning to receive support. -
Finding Your Own North Star – Martha Beck
Helps you discover and follow your truest path. -
A Year to Live – Stephen Levine
A guide to living fully and intentionally with mortality in mind. -
I Don’t Want to Talk About It – Terrence Real
On hidden depression in men and the cost of silence. -
The Let Them Theory – Mel Robbins
Invites radical permission to let go of control and allow others to be themselves.
Spiritual Presence & Wisdom
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The Power of Now – Eckhart Tolle
Teaches presence as the gateway to peace and awakening. -
The Discourse Summaries – S.N. Goenka
Foundational Vipassana teachings distilled into daily life insights. -
The Myth of Freedom – Chögyam Trungpa
Explores illusions of control and the nature of liberation. -
The Prophet – Kahlil Gibran
Poetic reflections on love, work, joy, and the human condition.
Love, Attachment & Relational Healing
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Your Brain on Love – Stan Tatkin
Neuroscience of attachment and practical tools for secure connection. -
The Mastery of Love – Don Miguel Ruiz
On unlearning fear and cultivating authentic love. -
The Highly Sensitive Person in Love – Elaine N. Aron
Guidance for sensitive souls navigating relationships. -
The 5 Love Languages – Gary Chapman
Framework for understanding and meeting your partner’s needs. -
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work – John Gottman
Research-based tools for strengthening long-term relationships. -
Conscious Loving – Gay & Kathlyn Hendricks
Practices for co-creating healthy, evolving partnerships. -
Hold Me Tight – Sue Johnson
Emotionally Focused Therapy approach to building secure bonds. -
The New Monogamy – Tammy Nelson
Explores trust, transparency, and new agreements in partnership. -
Secure Love – Julie Menanno
A modern guide to understanding attachment needs and thriving in love.
Sexuality, Pleasure & Desire
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Mating in Captivity – Esther Perel
Explores intimacy, eroticism, and keeping desire alive in long-term love. -
Sexual Healing – Peter Levine
Somatic practices for healing sexual trauma. -
Come as You Are – Emily Nagoski
Science-based exploration of women’s sexuality and pleasure. -
Urban Tantra – Annie Sprinkle
Integrates sacred erotic practice with everyday sexuality. -
Vagina – Naomi Wolf
Explores cultural, biological, and spiritual dimensions of feminine power. -
Pussy – Regena Thomashauer
A call to reclaim feminine radiance, pleasure, and creativity. -
Getting the Sex You Want – Tammy Nelson
Tools for building intimacy and erotic connection with a partner. -
Femme désirée, femme désirante – Danièle Flaumenbaum
A French perspective on women’s desire and relational healing. -
L’effet Source – Jacques Salomé
Explores relational intimacy and returning to inner truth.
Aligned Business, Money & Purpose
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The 4-Hour Workweek – Tim Ferriss
Rethinks productivity and lifestyle design beyond traditional work structures. -
Building a StoryBrand – Donald Miller
On clarifying your message and connecting with your audience’s story. -
Start With Why / Find Your Why – Simon Sinek
Guides to discovering and leading from purpose. -
Scarcity – Mullainathan & Shafir
Examines how scarcity impacts mindset and decision-making. -
Will It Fly? – Pat Flynn
Practical advice for testing and launching business ideas. -
Thinking in Systems – Donella Meadows
Introduces systems thinking for clearer problem-solving and design. -
Turning Pro – Steven Pressfield
Encouragement to shift from dabbling to dedicated creative work. -
The Soul of Money – Lynne Twist
On aligning money with values and generosity. -
You Are a Badass at Making Money – Jen Sincero
Mindset shifts for building confidence and wealth. -
Secrets of the Millionaire Mind – T. Harv Eker
Identifies limiting beliefs about money and how to rewire them. -
Think and Grow Rich – Napoleon Hill
Classic on mindset, persistence, and wealth creation. -
Earn What You Deserve – Jerrold Mundis
Helps break cycles of undercharging and undervaluing yourself. -
Rich Dad Poor Dad – Robert Kiyosaki
Lessons on financial literacy and shifting from worker to investor. -
I Will Teach You to Be Rich – Ramit Sethi
Practical systems for managing money with confidence.
Earth & Sacred Ecology
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Braiding Sweetgrass – Robin Wall Kimmerer
Braids indigenous wisdom, botany, and reciprocity with the Earth. -
The More Beautiful World Our Hearts Know Is Possible – Charles Eisenstein
A vision for collective healing and new ways of being together. -
Sacred Economics – Charles Eisenstein
Reimagines money and value through gift and reciprocity. -
Climate – Charles Eisenstein
Invites a holistic, interconnected approach to the climate crisis.
Embodiment, Breath & Vitality
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Light on the Yoga Sutras of Patanjali – B.K.S. Iyengar
Interpretation of the classic yoga text for modern practice. -
Asana Pranayama Mudra Bandha – Swami Satyananda Saraswati
A manual of yogic practices integrating body, breath, and mind. -
A Systematic Course in the Ancient Tantric Techniques of Yoga and Kriya – Swami Satyananda Saraswati
Comprehensive guide to kriya and tantric yoga practices. -
Breath – James Nestor
Reveals the power of breathwork for health and transformation. -
Quench – Dana Cohen & Gina Bria
Shows how hydration is key to energy and cellular health. -
The End of Alzheimer’s – Dale Bredesen
Pioneering research on preventing and reversing cognitive decline.
Body Liberation & Cultural Healing
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The Body Is Not an Apology – Sonya Renee Taylor
A radical invitation to self-love and dismantling body shame. -
Fearing the Black Body – Sabrina Strings
Explores the racialized roots of fatphobia and beauty standards.